Looking for Love after Losing Weight
It is very true to say that many people who are overweight or obese may be looking for love however they are put off doing so due to their weight. Low self confidence is always something that many overweight people experience which can reduce their chances of finding a partner.
If you do want to find love and are overweight then maybe you should look at ways to lose weight, for by doing so you really are going to look and feel better and may find your ideal partner when you do so.
Below are a few places and ways that anyone, large or small, overweight or not may just be able to strike gold and find true love and their ideal soul mate too
They say all is fair in love and war, and for the most part, it’s true. You need only read gossip magazines, broadsheet newspapers or tune into to Jeremy Kyle to see that. But there is something that 99% of these people have in common. That is confidence.
You can be the most beautiful person in the world, but be unlucky in love because of a lack of self confidence, while you can get some absolute idiots that seem to have more kids by different mothers than an orphanage.
When it comes to finding love, there is a pretty simple recipe: Mutual Attraction + Chemistry + Your own Self Confidence.
Having a bit of confidence doesn’t make you vain. It also doesn’t make you arrogant and self importance. It does however make you interesting and understand your own value of self worth, and that you won’t sell yourself short.
One of the easiest ways to meet potential suitors is online, but unfortunately, the internet being as it is, and it’s a minefield of Trolls, Scammers and potentially dangerous people. However, don’t let that scare you off completely.
Then again, there is a shift in things happening going back to the more traditional way of meeting people. IE, going to the pub or club and actually meeting people. This has the benefit of you immediately knowing if you do or don’t like someone, and also your social needs are met at the same time.
Love is blind, and sometimes it smacks you right in the face at the strangest of times and in the most unusual of places. Life isn’t a romantic comedy and you aren’t instantly going to fall in love with someone after you’ve accidently spilled scolding hot coffee on them (though it is possible). It will be a more mundane situation, like bumping into each other in the street or stood outside having a fag.
The only tip we can really give you is play to your strengths. Are you witty? Do you have a wicked sense of humour? Can you make people smile? Work out your strengths and work with them and a battlefield of dating will be much less perilous.